Gillian321
Registered User
Hi
My father has middle/late stage dementia but still enjoys walking into his local village to the pub or to see a friend and the familiarity of his surroundings. My mother his main carer finds it increasingly difficult to manage and has some heart problems herself.
We live 4 hours away and can only get to see them about once a month although we speak regularly.
We asked if they wanted to move next to us so we can support/care for them better. My mother welcomed this but my father, who will miss the community he knows, agreed with it but with some understandable regret. They suggested moving next Summer.
I would welcome people's advise - when is the 'right time' for them to move. How can we make this move as positive as possible. Any other advice would be very much welcome.
Thank you
Gillian
My father has middle/late stage dementia but still enjoys walking into his local village to the pub or to see a friend and the familiarity of his surroundings. My mother his main carer finds it increasingly difficult to manage and has some heart problems herself.
We live 4 hours away and can only get to see them about once a month although we speak regularly.
We asked if they wanted to move next to us so we can support/care for them better. My mother welcomed this but my father, who will miss the community he knows, agreed with it but with some understandable regret. They suggested moving next Summer.
I would welcome people's advise - when is the 'right time' for them to move. How can we make this move as positive as possible. Any other advice would be very much welcome.
Thank you
Gillian