Hi everyone,
I’ve been reading the threads here for a while and it’s brought me a lot of comfort during a very challenging time; thank you all for sharing your experiences, expertise, and kindness; it really helps.
My Dad is 64 and has an almost textbook case of Dementia with Lewy Bodies. It started with REM sleep disorder a few years ago, then a slight tremor and concentration problems shortly afterwards. More symptoms have followed since then, and in the past five months he’s developed hallucinations, delusions, and paranoia. He has also lashed out a few times. The most recent symptoms are the most difficult to deal with, and in the last two weeks he has told us (my Mum and I) over and over he doesn’t trust us, we’re after his money, there are people in the house tricking him, and so on. We’re constantly on edge, frightened of making Dad upset.
Due to a mix-up and mismanagement of Dad’s referral by our GP, we are currently waiting to go to the memory clinic for formal diagnosis.
Mum and I are both experiencing mental health difficulties because of the whole situation, and we’re at breaking point. We feel a short respite would be good for all of us; it’ll allow Dad to be taken care of in an environment that’s geared towards his condition, and the break will give Mum and I a chance to breathe, rest, and get ready for the next stages of Dad’s illness.
Does anyone know if it’s possible to access respite care without a formal diagnosis, especially as my Dad is under 65? We’ll be self-funding and are keen to arrange this as soon as possible.
Thank you all in advance!
I’ve been reading the threads here for a while and it’s brought me a lot of comfort during a very challenging time; thank you all for sharing your experiences, expertise, and kindness; it really helps.
My Dad is 64 and has an almost textbook case of Dementia with Lewy Bodies. It started with REM sleep disorder a few years ago, then a slight tremor and concentration problems shortly afterwards. More symptoms have followed since then, and in the past five months he’s developed hallucinations, delusions, and paranoia. He has also lashed out a few times. The most recent symptoms are the most difficult to deal with, and in the last two weeks he has told us (my Mum and I) over and over he doesn’t trust us, we’re after his money, there are people in the house tricking him, and so on. We’re constantly on edge, frightened of making Dad upset.
Due to a mix-up and mismanagement of Dad’s referral by our GP, we are currently waiting to go to the memory clinic for formal diagnosis.
Mum and I are both experiencing mental health difficulties because of the whole situation, and we’re at breaking point. We feel a short respite would be good for all of us; it’ll allow Dad to be taken care of in an environment that’s geared towards his condition, and the break will give Mum and I a chance to breathe, rest, and get ready for the next stages of Dad’s illness.
Does anyone know if it’s possible to access respite care without a formal diagnosis, especially as my Dad is under 65? We’ll be self-funding and are keen to arrange this as soon as possible.
Thank you all in advance!