Sorry, I seem to be coming on every day now looking advice but I'm finding it so hard to cope. My OH had another big dip 2 weeks ago and a bad fall on Sunday. He usually doesnt recognise me as his wife but I think he feels safe with me. Most times doesnt know where he is, is waiting for his dad to call for him etc. Social worker has recommended respite to give me a break. I'm on my own with him, no family to help but I get a carer 4 hours a week so I can shop and have a break. Does anyone know does respite make it harder when they come home again. Do they lose trust, do they no longer feel safe. He seems to be deteriorating so quickly although as someone said in a previous post if I started querying his memory 8 years ago it isn't really so sudden. I can't leave him on his own now, he's not capable of cooking operating tv and can never find the bathroom. I've buckets everywhere but yesterday he didn't even see the bucket and peed up the side of the dresser. He also can't focus on things. If I set a coffee on side table he can't see it until I hold it and point it out. Sorry I'm rambling now. Could anyone let me know their experience of respite please.