I and my husband are jointly and serverally the attorneys for an elderly friend. This man has no living blood relatives though he has a stepson (not legally adopted) who lives in another country. The man was found by doctors to have lost capacity late in 2022 so my husband, who has known him for more than 50 years, took up duties as attorney. He arranged, with advice from Social Services, a care package since our friend was adamant that he wished to remain in his own home. Then we were hit with an investigation from the OPG. Apparently it had been claimed that our friend had been in some way coerced into signing his LPA and that he had been isolated from friends and family. We provided copies of all his medical and financial records, bank accounts, investments, receipts for any purchases made on his account since the LPA had been active. The OPG found no evidence to support the allegations and we received a letter of closure. Now we have been hit with ANOTHER investigation by the OPG, this time claiming that our friends finances are not being used in his best interests. Again, the OPG wants all financial records, receipts etc. - all the stuff we sent previously but with all the receipts for the past year as well. Our friend has now deteriorated to the point where we have been advised he shoukd be in a care home, so my husband is liaising with the authorities on this. We believe we know the source of these repeated attacks on us and, of course, the motive is money. It seems some acquaintances of the stepson believe our friend to be extremely wealthy. They have repeatedly told us he ‘should be in a luxury care home’. Aside from the fact that his resources would only stretch to this for a limited time, they took no account of what our friend actually wanted. This latest attack is, we believe, based on one (unannounced) visit to his home by people who had not seen him for several years.
Why cannot the OPG see from their previous investigation that this is a malicious and unwarranted attack? They have the information, but say because the previous complaint did not relate to finance they want it again! This is causing us distress and for me personally (I am in my 70s and recently recovered from cancer) it now seems that becoming an attorney simply allows anyone with a grudge to have a go. Is there no restraint on this kind of abuse? And if not, why would anyone bother trying to help a friend or relative by becoming an attorney.
I would be grateful to hear from anyone else who has been targeted in this way as to how they dealt with it.
Why cannot the OPG see from their previous investigation that this is a malicious and unwarranted attack? They have the information, but say because the previous complaint did not relate to finance they want it again! This is causing us distress and for me personally (I am in my 70s and recently recovered from cancer) it now seems that becoming an attorney simply allows anyone with a grudge to have a go. Is there no restraint on this kind of abuse? And if not, why would anyone bother trying to help a friend or relative by becoming an attorney.
I would be grateful to hear from anyone else who has been targeted in this way as to how they dealt with it.