MiL is pretty bad. The GP gave up on questions after about 3 as she was getting so distressed. She doesn't know the time of day, where she lives or anything that's happened in the last 70 years. She's currently remembering things that happened before the age of 10 and is extremely repetitive. Doesn't know she needs to take medication, etc. Won't remember the GP visited if asked.
She's had referrals in the past and refused to go.
GP referred her again but said in the letter she has capacity, so memory clinic have declined the referral.
FiL is currently looking after her and she needs 24/7 care. His health is not so good either.
We are going to go back to the GP to discuss what to do next but is there anything else we can do?
I understand we might need to involve social services but we're hoping to get things managed, rather than wait for or cause a crisis and they also need to consent. We were trying to plan care if something happens to Fil but that requires a diagnosis.
We are also carers for my mum (90, stroke, lives a fair distance away), so it's getting quite daunting.
She's had referrals in the past and refused to go.
GP referred her again but said in the letter she has capacity, so memory clinic have declined the referral.
FiL is currently looking after her and she needs 24/7 care. His health is not so good either.
We are going to go back to the GP to discuss what to do next but is there anything else we can do?
I understand we might need to involve social services but we're hoping to get things managed, rather than wait for or cause a crisis and they also need to consent. We were trying to plan care if something happens to Fil but that requires a diagnosis.
We are also carers for my mum (90, stroke, lives a fair distance away), so it's getting quite daunting.