My husband was diagnosed with Dementia in 2015 and is now going downhill at a faster rate. I have been having terrible problems with him leaving a hideous mess all over the bathroom floor and thought it was only my husband. I now find this is a common problem due to the cognitive bit of the brain not working correct way. I had never heard anything about others with Dementia (In the 3 years since diagnosis) having this wful problem!! I have been so thrilled and relieved - I thought my poor man was doing it on purpose why has no one ever told me? At least it would not have been such a terrible shock. I have been reading all about others going through the same thing and feel so much better knowing I am not alone and that there is a solution even if it does not work for long! I presume no one mentions it at drop ins or other Dementia events for the same reason as me - because it is such a horrid subject. I will certainly be mentioning in future if only to prevent some other poor carer getting the same shock as I did. It does not make it go away but just sharing these things, no matter how bad can help. Thank you to all who have written on this forum. I am so glad I have found you all. I am off to purchase the said red sea and grab rails and will let you know how I get on.
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