I'm caring for a 93 year old who is determined to live independently and on his own. He's not eating well (though I manage his larder and menu) as he simply doesn't want to eat on his own any more. We've suggested a Day Centre or a 'club' (since he rejects anything he thinks smacks of 'Care' but he won't hear of it. He won't allow his 2x15min a day carers to do anything more than give him his meds - though they keep offering. He's getting up at 3am to cook his meal (which we suspect he then feeds to the dog) so he can 'legitimately' tell us all he doesn't need help. Has anyone with more experience any suggestions?