Mum is now 92 (nearly93) and she has come out of hospital after breaking her hip. Since she has come home she keeps asking (every 1/2 hour) where my father is. (He died 4 years ago). I have told her over 100 times now that he is dead but she can't get it into her head and thinks it's becaue she went into hospital and is convinced he was at home when she went. She has reablement care 8am 12pm and 4pm but they come and go very quickly. I am working full time and she keeps phoning me at work crying and screaming that she wants me at home, I don't care about her, I'm cruel etc etc etc. I have spoken to the Dr, memory clinic, social services everyone I can think of and just don't know where toturn. My job is on the line as I keep cryng at work and having to go home and "it's affecting the team!!" Got another meeting this morning with bosses to ascertain what's happening with mum but I don't know myself !!! It's a nightmare. she has deteriorated so much in the last couple of weeks I don't know what to do. I have always promised Mum i wouldn't let her go in a home. Have looked at private care at home whilst I'm working (£14.99 per hour) so that would be impossible to afford long term. I can't affiord to give up work as I pay the bills and my debts !!
She flatly refuses to go to day care centre. Neighbours getting fed up as I have to call them to sit with mum till I get home if she calls me in a panic. Anyone out there who can give me some advice ?
She flatly refuses to go to day care centre. Neighbours getting fed up as I have to call them to sit with mum till I get home if she calls me in a panic. Anyone out there who can give me some advice ?