My mother has been diagnosed with early Alzheimers and is on Aricept; my father died a few months ago and she did not cope well at home on her own. She had 2 bad falls, did not use her Lifeline, could not cope with phone calls, could not cook, so only ate cold food etc. She refused any help from social services or private care agencies so I tried to do everything I could to support her. She finally decided to try a wonderful residential home, very near to my house, which was a great surprise as she has always had a phobia of any sort of residential care. We are delighted with the care she is receiving but she is still not 100% happy and often talks, sometimes very aggressively, of returning home, even though she said she would kill herself if she had to stay in her own home any longer, before she moved into the residential home. She agreed for me to have both types of Power of Attorney, money and health and welfare. However, very soon, I will have to sell her house to fund her care and I know she will never agree to this. Even today, she told me she is going home 'tomorrow'! How can I get to the position of being able to sell her home without her consent; at the moment the house is unoccupied and is costing a fortune to run each month and we need the capital to fund her care.
Do I have to get the residential home to get a Doctor to declare her mentally unfit to make decisions now, or does the Power of Attorney give me automatic rights to sell her house, as it is in her best interest?
Many thanks
Do I have to get the residential home to get a Doctor to declare her mentally unfit to make decisions now, or does the Power of Attorney give me automatic rights to sell her house, as it is in her best interest?
Many thanks