So facing dads first Christmas in a CH, I'm wondering about gifts. To be honest for a few years he's had no idea what to do with gifts so on birthdays and Christmas we've just given him sweet treats and an updated photo of grandchildren etc. Oh and of course a new steam train calendar! He can barely feed himself now so food isn't possible. I can do photos but feel terrible giving him next to nothing. I'd also talked this week about not visiting on CD but going on Christmas Eve as I host Christmas here and again dads not had a clue what the fuss was about for years and often has been taken home after an hour as he's not felt happy. My kids still know it's Christmas obviously so it feels like I should be here for them on that day. But since making that decision The Guilt has crept in! What do you guys do if your LO is in a CH?