Hello everyone. I've been reading this forum for a while now, and it has been comforting. For the past couple of years, I’ve been noticing that my mum (88 years old) is showing signs of dementia. She asks the same questions over and over again, forgets what she just ate, what she did the day before etc. During the last couple of years my father has taken over more and more tasks at home. Mum doesn't do much around the house anymore. I brought up my concern about my mother's memory problems a year ago. My mother dismissed it, my father initially said he would think about it, but then, a few days later, told me I was utterly wrong. I was not a doctor and shouldn't pretend to be one, he said. I was shocked by the harsh response and decided not to mention it again. 12 months have passed since then, I have been visiting my parents every week and they were and are doing okay, except that my father is now quite sick cancer, and my mother's memory problems are even worse. Some weeks ago, I spent a few days with them away on holiday, and that made me realize that my mother's state is worse than I thought. I could also tell that my father noticed her forgetfulness as well as other behavioral changes. For instance she talks really bad about a lot of people. So I thought, that now my father must admit that something is not right with her. But no! Now they’ve told my brother, that I’m entirely wrong, that I made up the whole thing, and they haven’t contacted me for 1 1/2 months. Occasionally I phone my father, but he is quite cold. I’m devastated and heartbroken as my father is dying from cancer and they both deny anything is wrong with my mother and blames me for pointing it out. I don’t know what to do or say to them. My relationship with them has never been very warm, they have been quite selfish parents in many ways, but I’m very shocked that they seem to want to ‘terminate’ our relationship like this. Has anyone experienced such a brutal reaction?