Hi. I am new to talking point, but my parents, particularly my Mum are driving me mad. Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia a few years back after my Mum, who is down as his carer insisted. The trouble is that Mum is showing definite signs of succumbing herself (forgetting where she is, what she is doing, putting the strangest things in the fridge, leaving the gas on, lit and unlit at night, incontinence, yet refusing to let me wash her clothes. She had the first part of the dementia diagnosis done by the GP about a year ago, and the GP was going to refer her on, but she refused. She is very good at hiding her problems from nurses etc. (she has input from the macular clinic, and is registered partially sighted). When I phoned the GP to ask for help he just said "Well, what do you think I can do about it?"