We have two threads running on this subject. Can they be combined?
Will do Gringo.
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We have two threads running on this subject. Can they be combined?
I thought I would be blasted for my post saying it only showed the brink of the horrors. Thank you for your support. Chris was and is a truly brave man and I extend my deepest sympathies to his family. However, when I think of how distressed my own father was, the public, after watching this, may get the impression it is a disease that can be lived through. I truly do not believe this. I know it is heart breaking on a,daily basis for a sufferer watching it unfold. I lost my dad five months,ago and still am in shock at what he went through and I always,will be. Leaving the story where it was,at the point where Chris was,about to enter the latter stages wasn't realistic. My dad couldn't even walk, get words out, go toilet, eat but he was aware,enough to know what was happening and would cry a lot. My mum was,his main carer and she went through it with him, as did I who stayed with him for hours,every day for years. What about when they are paranoid and,delusional as in lewy bodies? When they try to kill themselves? When they are,so wretched they cant even get their own body into bed and fall constantly. Let the public see that then maybe such awareness raising will do some good for these people and their families xx
It would be interesting to see if they do a follow up program or a profile on the different types to educate the public.
I watched the programme and admired the people who were telling the true story of dementia and how it affected them to the present time in their experience
but the programme did not come up to expectation in driving home the traumatic experience that so many face in the advancing stages of AD and its variants
My wife died 6 years ago and just lately I have felt ill equipped to comment on the many posts that I see daily
My wife was a very proud woman ,and to witness her deteriorate , both mentally and physically was heart breaking
As I used to help her wash down after her many ‘accidents ‘ , even in the latter stages I could tell by the look in her eyes that she could still feel some mental anguish It is this stage that does not get shown on these programmes ,
I don’t think ( in fact I know ) that the general public with no experience in dealing with AD and its variants will ever really understand the true trauma of this existence for both patient and carers until they are shown it in it’s reality
I couldn’t find the words to express my opinion of the programme until I read this post by ‘overwhelmed ‘
Thank you ‘overwhelmed ‘ your post expresses my own feelings
jimbo
My wife is at mid-stage of early onset Alzheimer's, though in her case "early" was age 60. and we both found this programme spot on. In particular Chris' sense of humour and his ability to face the condition head on such as selecting his own care home and preparing his living will.
My wife wants a t-shirt like Chris' as she said it described (her) Alzheimer's exactly, but I can imagine it could cause offence in some quarters ("Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, I've got Alzheimer's, Cheese on Toast").
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My wife is at mid-stage of early onset Alzheimer's, though in her case "early" was age 60. and we both found this programme spot on. In particular Chris' sense of humour and his ability to face the condition head on such as selecting his own care home and preparing his living will.
My wife wants a t-shirt like Chris' as she said it described (her) Alzheimer's exactly, but I can imagine it could cause offence in some quarters ("Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, I've got Alzheimer's, Cheese on Toast").
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It is, after all, a brain disease, and if a section of the brain is destroyed or shut down by dementia and it controls a certain behaviour, or awareness of something, then that behaviour or awareness will be lost. People understand that in the case of a brain injury caused by an accident, but still seem unwilling to accept it about dementia.Exactly Tigerlady, it would be easier to have atraumatic brain injury from another cause
I watched the programme and understood Chris's 'need' to go to the care home, he knows what's happening to him and still wants to protect his wife and family as much as possible i.e. not wanting to die at home. As he also said 'Nothing is expected of him' in the care home where at home he is still 'Dad' with all the expectations that brings from others but also from himself, this which he struggles to do so further reinforcing his disability. It is so hard on everyone He struck me as a man trying to make the best decisions for his family whilst looking his illness in the face, a very brave man.