Opening Up

bel

Registered User
Apr 26, 2006
757
coventry
Thanks to grannie g
i am trying to open up to my children about how depressed i am and that i am not coping with hubby getting so much worse
it took a lot of doing but i asked my son to phone our daughter to say could we meet i need to talk this was saturday no phone call
dont get me wrong my kids are great
i should of asked my daughter myself could we talk but my head is all over te place i am woried she is upset i did not tell her as well
but she has a very busy life
God Bless Grannie G i am opening up slowly but it is so hard
i am like a lot of you loosing the one i love after 37 years frontal lobe apparantly goes fast and i can see this with hubby over the last 6 months love bel x
 

Margarita

Registered User
Feb 17, 2006
10,824
london
Pleased to read that you made the first move, sure your daughter phone soon xx , I know with my children they are each so different in seeing me so down .
 

Grannie G

Volunteer Moderator
Apr 3, 2006
71,112
Kent
Well done Bel, you have made a start.

Don`t give up. If you don`t hear from your daughter, phone both your son and daughter and ask again to meet up with them. You will get there in the end.

You have overcome the biggest hurdle.

With love
 

soulsmilin

Registered User
Feb 13, 2007
43
48
Tyne and wear
As a daughter who is in a simular position to your children, knowing how you feel means that your only ever a phone call away, and that you can make more of an effort and also try and let you get a breather at times, please tell your children, and also what they can do to help make life more bearable for you, remember to do something nice for yourself every day,

all the very best
soulsmilin
 

Skye

Registered User
Aug 29, 2006
17,000
SW Scotland
Well done bel. I'm so glad you've developed the confidence to talk about your feelings to your family, and the courage to post about it.

And well done Sylvia, for the encouragement you're giving bel.

And well done TP, for making it possible.

Bel, keep it up. You know your family love you, you just need to let them know you need help. Ring your daughter and tell her how you feel. I'm sure she'll help.

Love,