Hi. My 98 yo grandmother still lives at home and seems sharp as a tack. Her memory is fine, and you can have a great conversation with her about all kinds of topics. She is a great woman.
mover the past 18 months she has begun obsessing about things. First was a ghost in the house who annoyed her, shook the bed, all kinds of mischief. She believed it was my great grandfather - paternal side who she had never met, spirit recently released and living in a photo. She was so convinced and I couldn’t talk her out of it. I removed the photo. Problem solved. Then she became obsessed there was mould in the carpet. My cousin had the carpet tested. No mould. She ended up having the carpet lifted. No mould, but that obsession gone.
Most upsetting my, she has now accused my mother of elaborate plan which resulted in trinkets in her house being replaced by cheaper replacement trinkets - we are talking 4 items of little real value - but she is insistent that my mother is a thief and telling everyone my mother stole from her.
It’s quite upsetting. My question really is whether this false accusation / delusion behaviour is a symptom of dementia even when everything else with her is great. My extended family don’t want to acknowledge it could be a symptom of dementia which is even more upsetting for my mum.
kimmy x
mover the past 18 months she has begun obsessing about things. First was a ghost in the house who annoyed her, shook the bed, all kinds of mischief. She believed it was my great grandfather - paternal side who she had never met, spirit recently released and living in a photo. She was so convinced and I couldn’t talk her out of it. I removed the photo. Problem solved. Then she became obsessed there was mould in the carpet. My cousin had the carpet tested. No mould. She ended up having the carpet lifted. No mould, but that obsession gone.
Most upsetting my, she has now accused my mother of elaborate plan which resulted in trinkets in her house being replaced by cheaper replacement trinkets - we are talking 4 items of little real value - but she is insistent that my mother is a thief and telling everyone my mother stole from her.
It’s quite upsetting. My question really is whether this false accusation / delusion behaviour is a symptom of dementia even when everything else with her is great. My extended family don’t want to acknowledge it could be a symptom of dementia which is even more upsetting for my mum.
kimmy x