I haven't posted on here for a while as I haven't needed to, but things have come to a head.
My Mum who has Alziemers has become more and more verbally aggressive with us and has got a lot worse mentally now. She has rages and we have got to the stage where we can't go on looking after her at home for much longer.
My brother sleeps in the house overnight, my sister does all day, I can now only manage two afternoons a week as I have M. E.
The problem is she has always said she doesn't want to go into a nursing home, so she will not go willingly no chance. So how do we actually get her in one? The Mental health team are involved and have been told we can't carry on, will they section her?
My god that will be so traumatic, I can't witness that. We just don't know how to get her into a home, either way it's going to be horrible.
Would really welcome any advice, sorry for short post, can't concentrate for long due to M. E.
My Mum who has Alziemers has become more and more verbally aggressive with us and has got a lot worse mentally now. She has rages and we have got to the stage where we can't go on looking after her at home for much longer.
My brother sleeps in the house overnight, my sister does all day, I can now only manage two afternoons a week as I have M. E.
The problem is she has always said she doesn't want to go into a nursing home, so she will not go willingly no chance. So how do we actually get her in one? The Mental health team are involved and have been told we can't carry on, will they section her?
My god that will be so traumatic, I can't witness that. We just don't know how to get her into a home, either way it's going to be horrible.
Would really welcome any advice, sorry for short post, can't concentrate for long due to M. E.