Hi,
My husband has been in a Dementia Nursing Home since August and has been pretty settled in the last 2 months. He has late stage Parkinsons and mixed dementia. When I visited today the Manager called me over and said that in a meeting they had talked about my husband being too "good" for their Home as they have many people with worse dementia and did I think I should move him?
I was so shocked as his placement in the Home is permanent. A Care Home won't accept him as he has Nursing Care needs and he remains utterly delusional. For instance he wants to go to Butlins on holiday so we can go on the rides. We'll go on the bus. This is a man who can barely walk.
Has anyone had to do this and I need to know how to do it. I don't even know if he has a social worker. She told me they won't ask for him to be taken out but that must be in her mind.
I would welcome any advice as I need to be ready for the request to remove him and my own mental health remains fragile from 15 years of caring.
My husband has been in a Dementia Nursing Home since August and has been pretty settled in the last 2 months. He has late stage Parkinsons and mixed dementia. When I visited today the Manager called me over and said that in a meeting they had talked about my husband being too "good" for their Home as they have many people with worse dementia and did I think I should move him?
I was so shocked as his placement in the Home is permanent. A Care Home won't accept him as he has Nursing Care needs and he remains utterly delusional. For instance he wants to go to Butlins on holiday so we can go on the rides. We'll go on the bus. This is a man who can barely walk.
Has anyone had to do this and I need to know how to do it. I don't even know if he has a social worker. She told me they won't ask for him to be taken out but that must be in her mind.
I would welcome any advice as I need to be ready for the request to remove him and my own mental health remains fragile from 15 years of caring.