Husband is also denies physical problems and sometimes it is potentially dangerous. On hospital visits he has denied having TIAs and heart attacks have been described by him as "spasms". When it is the same hospital they have his notes and it doesn't matter so much but two heart attacks happened when he was away.
Also having contacted social services for help, explaining the difficulty he has having a bath and also going upstairs I had to watch him sprint upstairs like a teenager rather than his usual stopping on every step. I have had a shower put in but he has told everybody he doesn't need it.
And like others he can be the life and soul of the party so everyone thinks he's fine - and then I have to pick up the pieces later. I wish I could be more understanding but just finish up thinking it's not fair!!
Also having contacted social services for help, explaining the difficulty he has having a bath and also going upstairs I had to watch him sprint upstairs like a teenager rather than his usual stopping on every step. I have had a shower put in but he has told everybody he doesn't need it.
And like others he can be the life and soul of the party so everyone thinks he's fine - and then I have to pick up the pieces later. I wish I could be more understanding but just finish up thinking it's not fair!!