This may seem a small problem to what others are experiencing but not sure what to do for the best.
Leading up to the crisis which led to my wife going into permanent care 8 weeks ago I had to place our Labrador dog, Skye, in foster care because the 'voices' that Anne heard were threatening both his and my safety and at times she became quite frantic about him and he became very protective of her. Once he was gone she seemed to settle and believed him safe.
I brought him back to live with me some weeks ago. He provides the only structure to my days now apart from visiting the CH. Anne is aware that he is back with me and the old fears have resurfaced now no matter how much I try to reassure her.
Last week I visited and she was playing with the Pat Dog which visits the CH with tears streaming down her face and saying how she misses Skye.
She has obviously been mentioning Skye to the CH staff because they are suggesting that I take Skye for a visit but I'm unsure how Anne would react. Would it set her mind at rest or unsettle her and increase her fears?
Is it worth the risk?
Geof
Leading up to the crisis which led to my wife going into permanent care 8 weeks ago I had to place our Labrador dog, Skye, in foster care because the 'voices' that Anne heard were threatening both his and my safety and at times she became quite frantic about him and he became very protective of her. Once he was gone she seemed to settle and believed him safe.
I brought him back to live with me some weeks ago. He provides the only structure to my days now apart from visiting the CH. Anne is aware that he is back with me and the old fears have resurfaced now no matter how much I try to reassure her.
Last week I visited and she was playing with the Pat Dog which visits the CH with tears streaming down her face and saying how she misses Skye.
She has obviously been mentioning Skye to the CH staff because they are suggesting that I take Skye for a visit but I'm unsure how Anne would react. Would it set her mind at rest or unsettle her and increase her fears?
Is it worth the risk?
Geof