Mum's moving in to the care home this weekend and for our own peace of mind we told her about it on Saturday just gone. She has very minimal communication skills but we sat her down and I explained what was going to have to happen. She got upset and cried but was fine a little later, probably having forgotten.
Yesterday I took her for a proper look round the home. She'd been before but only as far as the office where we sat for her assessment. I don't know the extent of what she does and doesn't remember as she can't tell you but wanted to at least give a chance of her recognising the place when we go at the weekend. She was fine when I picked her up and said we were going to have a look round, even fine when we rang the bell at the front door. Then it was just crying, crying, crying. All the way round her face just crumpled, and when she saw her new room, and when we sat in the lounge for a cup of tea. So not looking forward to having to leave her there
Yesterday I took her for a proper look round the home. She'd been before but only as far as the office where we sat for her assessment. I don't know the extent of what she does and doesn't remember as she can't tell you but wanted to at least give a chance of her recognising the place when we go at the weekend. She was fine when I picked her up and said we were going to have a look round, even fine when we rang the bell at the front door. Then it was just crying, crying, crying. All the way round her face just crumpled, and when she saw her new room, and when we sat in the lounge for a cup of tea. So not looking forward to having to leave her there