Hi everybody,
I'm new to the forum and a bit taken aback at the overload of information available to me on the subjects I'm looking at.
My Grandfather was diagnosed with dementia several years ago but in the last 12 months we have seen a serious downturn . To that end he has been into a care home to have his abilities assessed for the past couple of weeks. Today (and I'm not fully sure of the full details as I'm living in Germany with my hubby who is in the Forces) my uncle, who is his power of attorney, has been told that he will not be allowed to return home due to his wellbeing.
There was no desire to put my Grandfather into a care home but now this is the only option we are being given. Having worked all his life and paid for his property he bought over 60 years ago and put away a few pennies for a rainy day I know if the family had opted to put him into a home he would have had to self fund. if the assessment centre are refusing to let him return home would this make him eligible for continuing care?
I really don't think it would humanely right that he wouldn't be allowed home, at the say so of the assessors, yet be charge £700 upwards a week for care and be forced to sell the family home to do so.
I know we are unable to get rid of his finances just to avoid fees but is it possible to pre pay for funerals from his money and if continuing care was rejected pay for lawyers to fight this?
Thanks in advance for any information - bit overwhelmed to say the least as this wasn't the decision we wanted!
Regards,
Caplee
I'm new to the forum and a bit taken aback at the overload of information available to me on the subjects I'm looking at.
My Grandfather was diagnosed with dementia several years ago but in the last 12 months we have seen a serious downturn . To that end he has been into a care home to have his abilities assessed for the past couple of weeks. Today (and I'm not fully sure of the full details as I'm living in Germany with my hubby who is in the Forces) my uncle, who is his power of attorney, has been told that he will not be allowed to return home due to his wellbeing.
There was no desire to put my Grandfather into a care home but now this is the only option we are being given. Having worked all his life and paid for his property he bought over 60 years ago and put away a few pennies for a rainy day I know if the family had opted to put him into a home he would have had to self fund. if the assessment centre are refusing to let him return home would this make him eligible for continuing care?
I really don't think it would humanely right that he wouldn't be allowed home, at the say so of the assessors, yet be charge £700 upwards a week for care and be forced to sell the family home to do so.
I know we are unable to get rid of his finances just to avoid fees but is it possible to pre pay for funerals from his money and if continuing care was rejected pay for lawyers to fight this?
Thanks in advance for any information - bit overwhelmed to say the least as this wasn't the decision we wanted!
Regards,
Caplee