Dear Angela,
I haven't had a chance to visit the site for a while, but was just reading all you've dealt with recently and am so sorry to hear of your loss. As Sheila says, it really is the time to remember Jim now as he was and to let go of the awful nightmare that is dementia. Know that you did all you could to support Jim, and that you truly kept your promise to him until the end. You have already shown yourself to be stronger than most.
Look after yourself,
I haven't had a chance to visit the site for a while, but was just reading all you've dealt with recently and am so sorry to hear of your loss. As Sheila says, it really is the time to remember Jim now as he was and to let go of the awful nightmare that is dementia. Know that you did all you could to support Jim, and that you truly kept your promise to him until the end. You have already shown yourself to be stronger than most.
Look after yourself,