Hi. I am having concerns about both my Mum and my Dad, they both seem very forgetful and tell me the same stories every time I see them. They are also both now making really quite racist remarks, this is really out of character for my Mum, and I am worried if they talk like this in public what might happen. They are both really anti doctors, when I first had concerns about my Dad I went to see our local GP and she said that in order to test for dementia, my Mum would have to give permission as next of kin if my Dad didn't want to take it, now both of them might need the test and neither would want to do this! How do I help them? Can dementia be treated at this stage, neither would be willing to take any form of medicine??