Thank you all, I'm so glad you are discussing these issues, please keep posting so that people like John & me can learn as much as possible asap.
As some will know, Johns' diagnosis was only last week, so we are indeed on the starting line.
I'm glad I arranged our house extention to cater for 'old age', unfortunately I did not bargain for this! At least (mortgage protection insurance allowing) we hope to be able to cater for the physical side of the later stages at home, but what will happen regarding the 'carer' side of things, if and when that happens, I will have to wait and see.
Do you think the actual carer support services would be included in the 'front line'? I doubt it!
We can't, of course, have the council offices and town centres without their annual floral displays, can we?
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Love, Necion. x