I have no help. I tried to get a home carer just to pop in while I am at work but there is a shortage in this area so it's just me.Hi @Lin47, a warm welcome to the forum. It can be an incredibly lonely experience, and difficult for others who haven't walked in your shoes to really understand (how could they really) - that's where the forum can really help, most of us have been in your position. Do you have any help with Mum (family/carers etc)?