Hi, I am not even sure I should be taking up space in here as my husband hasn't been dianosed yet. He has 90% of the symtoms of Vascular Dementia and his cardiac nurse thinks this could be the problem. I have given up on the social workers as they just mislead and give no help at all. I read some of the threads and replies in here and have had a glimpse into what the future may hold. I thought it was bad enough now but it looks as if it only gets worse. Please tell me if I am not really eligible to be in here yet. I would be loathe to cause any upset.