Hello, need a little advise please
My dad was diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer's last September, his decline sped up once his driving license was taken from him, and I'm now living with mum and dad and we seemed to have a handle on it, he's up a lot during the night, he sleepwalks and is very creative with the furniture! While I was at work (I work full-time) he got out of the house a few times and we had to get the police to find him, we now have tracker insoles in his shoes, so we've solved that problem.
My main problem is now my mum is showing signs of memory loss, I've been trying to get her to the doctor but she's not having any of it! Today she doesn't know who I am, she thinks I'm her sister, my heart is breaking, I thought I had a handle on it with my dad and we were coping fine, but now mum, I depend on her to look after dad while I'm at work, there's no other family that can help, I'm not sure I should be leaving them alone during the days anymore, waiting for social services to see if they can help
My dad was diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer's last September, his decline sped up once his driving license was taken from him, and I'm now living with mum and dad and we seemed to have a handle on it, he's up a lot during the night, he sleepwalks and is very creative with the furniture! While I was at work (I work full-time) he got out of the house a few times and we had to get the police to find him, we now have tracker insoles in his shoes, so we've solved that problem.
My main problem is now my mum is showing signs of memory loss, I've been trying to get her to the doctor but she's not having any of it! Today she doesn't know who I am, she thinks I'm her sister, my heart is breaking, I thought I had a handle on it with my dad and we were coping fine, but now mum, I depend on her to look after dad while I'm at work, there's no other family that can help, I'm not sure I should be leaving them alone during the days anymore, waiting for social services to see if they can help