Hi everyone,
I'm new here, and possibly not in the right place at all.
My mother has been in hospital for about 8 weeks now (moving around to various different places) and is finally going to a temporary placement in a care home tomorrow.
In June this year she was 100% independent, driving a car, helping me look after my kids, could probably walk a mile or two (slowly!) - in general, nothing wrong with her except a poor appetite.
She suddenly went massively down hill, and basically now she is bed bound, doubly incontinent and incredibly confused. The doctors are putting this down to delirium due to a UTI. I'm not completely convinced (mainly because she's never had a UTI!). I've been told that it's delirium until it persists for more than 12 months, and then they will look at other possible causes for the confusion.
So she really wants to come home, but I don't see at all how that's going to be possible. So I've suggested she might want to live with us, but she's not overly keen.
Anyway, I thought I would come here to see how other people manage, and get some advice and tips (and maybe just vent a bit as well!).
Look forward to talking to you all.
Rachel
I'm new here, and possibly not in the right place at all.
My mother has been in hospital for about 8 weeks now (moving around to various different places) and is finally going to a temporary placement in a care home tomorrow.
In June this year she was 100% independent, driving a car, helping me look after my kids, could probably walk a mile or two (slowly!) - in general, nothing wrong with her except a poor appetite.
She suddenly went massively down hill, and basically now she is bed bound, doubly incontinent and incredibly confused. The doctors are putting this down to delirium due to a UTI. I'm not completely convinced (mainly because she's never had a UTI!). I've been told that it's delirium until it persists for more than 12 months, and then they will look at other possible causes for the confusion.
So she really wants to come home, but I don't see at all how that's going to be possible. So I've suggested she might want to live with us, but she's not overly keen.
Anyway, I thought I would come here to see how other people manage, and get some advice and tips (and maybe just vent a bit as well!).
Look forward to talking to you all.
Rachel