New diagnosis- no idea what to do next

[snapt]

Hi All. My dad was diagnosed on Friday and is already having his main care given by my mom. I don't know where to turn. The neuro consultant gave us a diagnosis so we are being referred to a psych geriatrician for daily activity support next.

Should I now start the ball rolling by applying for attendance allowance ?

They rent a house, have very little savings, and have never claimed a benefit in their lives.

I have absolutely no idea what to do and the more I read about this awful disease the more upset I become.

 

[marionq]

I would hope you will be given a support worker attached to the clinic she is being sent to. When they come out one of their jobs should be to fill in the Attendance allowance form for you. If this doesn't happen ask Age UK to send someone to advise you as ticking the right boxes on these forms is essential.. When your claim is accepted you can use it to get a reduction on council tax.

Meanwhile ask the LA and the Alz Soc what groups, cafés, etc are available locally for Alz patients as meeting other people and getting out will stop them getting on each other's nerves and they will find out a lot of useful information on what is available locally.

Much of the info I have found is due to listening in on other people asking questions I haven't even thought of!

 

[bilslin]

Hi snaps and welcome to TP sorry that you have had to come and join us here on TP but you've come to the right place that you can get advice and support that you will need now that you've had to start the journey of dementia. Good luck with the Alzheimer society they will be a great help. lindax

 

[Pacucho]

Carers centre should be able to help

Hi,

You have received some good advice. If you are still unsure as to what to do next I would recommend you find your mum's local Carers Centre who can help. Here is a link that will enable to locate the nearest Centre: http://www.carers.org/carers-services/find-your-local-service.
Hope this helps,

Paco