Hi everyone, I am new to TP but hope to make some new friends through it. My mum has been in a care home for about 17 months suffering from Alzheimers. She has not found it easy but has never talked about her problems. I wont bore you with all the events since she has been there, but the most recent problem to have arisen is at her bathtime. I was informed recently by one of the staff that it took 3 of them to handle mum at bathtime, which is only once a week, and she doesnt always agree to it. Evidently she screamed so loud other residents were covering their ears! I offered to go along and 'assist' which I did last night. As they said, mum screamed so loud at the top of her voice - not that there was anything wrong - nice bubbly bath, warm room etc. I tried consoling her but she just screamed and clenched her fists and banged them on the side of the bath. She glared at me and shouted that if I didn't get her out she would punch me in the face. I must point out that at no time was she forced to do anything and the staff are so calm. This reaction really upset me and no amount of explanation or reassurance would pacify mum. Have any other members experienced similar problems and if so can you give us some advice on what to do next! Mum is as bad with showers evidently. Sorry to ramble on but I am so upset by this latest outburst. Lindy Lou