Hi there
My mum got diagnosed with Alzheimers in 2021 at 58, she's now 60
She wants to rent a bungalow and I've got her on the council list as she has a knee replacement and her mobility is not the best and then with her having Alzheimers I was advised it would be better for her.
I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place because my 37 year old brother is still living at home, rent free, pays no bills, maybe buys the odd bit of food and doesn't really do anything. Doesn't even eat with her at dinner time, he eats in his room like a teenager..
I'm her lasting power of attorney as I take her to all her appointments, sorts her medication out, takes her to dementia groups twice a week, all while working myself and have my own family.
She was recently offered a one bedroom bungalow through the council but has refused it because she doesn't want to tell my brother he needs to find his own place.
I've told my brother that he needs to think of her needs.
I don't know what to do and feel like I'm hitting my head against a brick wall. She may have another opportunity for another bungalow but they will only offer a one bedroom and if she refuses again, her chances are getting thinner.
If any of you have any advice please i would appreciate it.
My mum got diagnosed with Alzheimers in 2021 at 58, she's now 60
She wants to rent a bungalow and I've got her on the council list as she has a knee replacement and her mobility is not the best and then with her having Alzheimers I was advised it would be better for her.
I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place because my 37 year old brother is still living at home, rent free, pays no bills, maybe buys the odd bit of food and doesn't really do anything. Doesn't even eat with her at dinner time, he eats in his room like a teenager..
I'm her lasting power of attorney as I take her to all her appointments, sorts her medication out, takes her to dementia groups twice a week, all while working myself and have my own family.
She was recently offered a one bedroom bungalow through the council but has refused it because she doesn't want to tell my brother he needs to find his own place.
I've told my brother that he needs to think of her needs.
I don't know what to do and feel like I'm hitting my head against a brick wall. She may have another opportunity for another bungalow but they will only offer a one bedroom and if she refuses again, her chances are getting thinner.
If any of you have any advice please i would appreciate it.