Nasty Habits
Oh, how I can relate to some of these habits you mention. I can honestly say it is the illness that has brought these habits into the open and I find them so difficult to cope with. I try to use some of my own ideas to try and avoid these problems, like showering with my hubby (to make sure he showers daily); to put a disposable bed pad, which is like a paper mat, down in front of the toilet which is absorbing the wee and giving him baby wet wipes to wipe underneath. Obviously if I were not to do all these things, I am sure my darling would be living like a hobo, never paying any attention to personal hygiene at all. All these tasks do take there toll on you as a carer, but sometimes it avoids only more hasle. Margaret, you did make me smile. How often I would like to do what you suggest, but thank God I stop myself! I just scream and shout and then cry ... this is my outlet, but boy do I feel guilty when I do this.
I'm not sure if you will find this funny, but I did. John trying to empty the wee out of his pull ups ... when I asked what he was doing with his soiled pull ups (as he was leaning over the loo tipping them) he said, emptying the wee, so they will be easier for you to carry .... erh!! This morning though, not funny, he placed the pull ups in the toilet pan when I wasn't looking.
June
Oh, how I can relate to some of these habits you mention. I can honestly say it is the illness that has brought these habits into the open and I find them so difficult to cope with. I try to use some of my own ideas to try and avoid these problems, like showering with my hubby (to make sure he showers daily); to put a disposable bed pad, which is like a paper mat, down in front of the toilet which is absorbing the wee and giving him baby wet wipes to wipe underneath. Obviously if I were not to do all these things, I am sure my darling would be living like a hobo, never paying any attention to personal hygiene at all. All these tasks do take there toll on you as a carer, but sometimes it avoids only more hasle. Margaret, you did make me smile. How often I would like to do what you suggest, but thank God I stop myself! I just scream and shout and then cry ... this is my outlet, but boy do I feel guilty when I do this.
I'm not sure if you will find this funny, but I did. John trying to empty the wee out of his pull ups ... when I asked what he was doing with his soiled pull ups (as he was leaning over the loo tipping them) he said, emptying the wee, so they will be easier for you to carry .... erh!! This morning though, not funny, he placed the pull ups in the toilet pan when I wasn't looking.
June