My nan has been diagnosed with dementia and is currently in hospital. She is going into a home but is adament she's fine, she thinks we're all lying to her and if she does go into a home she's going to kick up such a fuss they will want her to leave. My mum stays at the hospital 6hrs a day with her and one minute she's pleasant and "normal" to my mum and the next she's calling my mum names, saying she can't believe we're putting her into a home and that she never expected that of her daughter and she'll never forgive her. My mum is obviously getting upset as she's doing everything she possibly can for my nan but she's just getting abuse. Can anyone offer any advice? We're desperate. We never know when we go to visit her what mood she'll be in or what we're in for.