I really feel for you. We haven’t reached this stage but my OH who would never have come down partly dressed will now come down in boxers asking which trousers, shoes, socks, shirt …… even though they are all out. And he will still do it even if we have visitors, luckily so far it’s always been in the boxers. On your point about what comes next, for me personally I’d rather not think about it until it happens, I can’t change anything and everyone is different so it may not happen, I’m happier with my head in the sand! Sending you hugs.