Myself and sister have POA for health issues but....

[kimnjohn69]

Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place to write but here goes.
My sister and I have POA for mums financial things, but my sister and I don't get on,at all.She is very controlling and manipulative. Mum and Dad are both elderly with health problems, my sister lives with them.
I have tried to talk to my sister about my mums funeral plans but since we decided I took care of dad's and she does my mums, she has changed mums funeral plan to burial, but my dad,mum and me and my sister had a meet up and they wanted cremation together, but since seeing my mums funeral plan and I challenged my sister,we argue terribly, I explained mum and dad wanted cremation, they both sat and decided together.She changed mums funeral plan last year,because the plans were taken out a few years ago.could anyone advice what I can do about this.There are financial arguments too, my mum has savings but my sister won't tell me the total.She keeps arguing with me when I ask about them.Saying I just want mums money, it's not the case, I juhave poa with her and have a right to know.any advice would be much appreciated thank you kim

 

[Banjomansmate]

If you share LPA you have equal right to access your Mum’s bank accounts. Take your copy of the LPA (get a Certified copy if you don’t have an original ) to your Mum’s bank to show you have the legal right to access.

 

[Bod]

If mum and dad want a cremation, but sister wants a burial, and presumabley a grave to visit.
Then For my in-laws, both were cremated, when eachs time came, after the last, the ashes were both interrred, together, with a marker stone in their local cementary.
Possible to have both.

Bod