My 65 year old wife is about 10 years into having the PCA variant of Alzheimer's and I think she would be considered early stage 6. She often says she would like to be in a care home. She is still physically healthy and we go for a walk every day. Despite many delusions she is very aware of what's going on around her and I think she would hate it. We moved house and town a couple of years ago and she says she doesn't like the house and is missing her old friends. She actually chose the house and because of her condition she was withdrawing from friendships before we moved. We do still see our closest friends occasionally and she has an old friend living nearby but shows no interest in seeing them.
I am able to provide her as much support as she needs including helping her use the toilet in the night. I doubt she would get the same level of care in a home.
I will be fine with her going into a care home when I think the time is right but I don't think that is now. On the other hand I don't relish going against her wishes. Probably a stupid question but when does one know when the time has come to move someone into a care home?
I am able to provide her as much support as she needs including helping her use the toilet in the night. I doubt she would get the same level of care in a home.
I will be fine with her going into a care home when I think the time is right but I don't think that is now. On the other hand I don't relish going against her wishes. Probably a stupid question but when does one know when the time has come to move someone into a care home?