Ok so my mum has a pub at the end of her road which she takes herself off to a couple times a week. She sits there and does not bring her purse so they kindly feed and water her. We her daughters pay the bill. The landlord now says he doesn’t want her coming in on her own as she takes up a whole table and does dementia stuff (tipped mayonnaise into her tea). He says people are being put off going in. He asked my sister how many days do we work, he said he wants us to sort out a solution. Me and my sister both work and we live in different towns from our mum. We both take care of cleaning mums house, cleaning her, laundry, shopping, cooking, mum fights us when we try to get her to change her clothes but we still do it. The landlord is getting to be a stress for us, we told him we can’t control where she goes when we’re not there. But he’s getting angry with us. What do we do?? We are trying to get her to go to a nursing home but she refuses, even though she failed the MCA. She gets lost a lot too, police we called yesterday to find her. I can’t cope this much longer. What do we say to the landlord?