My dad has alzheimers and I still live at home with my parents, I am the youngest of 9 and seem to be the only one around to help with mum and dad, my mum is very stubborn and wont seek help for her mental health with having to deal with dad day In day out. My mum has days were she will flip out and shout at my dad for silly little mistakes he makes, I know it must be frustrating but I feel bad for my dad. I sometimes wish she was the one that was ill just so I know my dad dosent have to suffer her shouting at him. I work full time and try to help out as much but I need to have a life outside of my parents like my other siblings. I dont know what to do, I keep telling my mum that she needs to keep nagging to get help but she said she will just wait for the help, the help wont come if you dont seek it..... what do I do to get the ball running with help without feeling like I am gonna get my head bitten off by mum.