My lovely Dad has died x

[Adcat]

I joined this forum on 16 June 2014. I found it to be incredibly helpful and supportive.

My dad died at home with me on 14 March 2017.

I don't really know how I feel. I'm going through the admin; death certificates, arranging funeral, reception etc. My siblings have been useless as usual.

I got myself back into counselling. I can't sleep. Counsellor told me to take sedative as I need to sleep and advised me to take the next 6 weeks off work to try and adjust.

I'm quite numb.

Thanks for reading x




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[Tin]

So sorry to read your post Adcat. Hope the counselling helps you get through. take care of yourself now.

 

[LadyA]

Sorry to hear about your loss, adcat. It is a huge adjustment. Wishing you strength in the coming weeks. But take your time- grieving won't be rushed.

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[Soobee]

My condolences to you - It is often a time of numbness and kind-of going through the necessary for the funeral, then you wonder why you feel so oddly empty. That's just part of the grief process.

I am glad you are able to go to counselling and I hope it helps you to adjust when you are ready. x

 

[Izzy]

I'm sorry to read your news. Sending my condolences and wishing you strength.


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[VickiW]

So sorry to read this, my condolences to you X


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[Babymare01]

I am so sorry. Im sure others will have advice but please give yourself time. Take one day at a time.
Hugs xx

 

[Cat27]

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you.

 

[stanleypj]

I'm very sorry to hear this sad news. I hope the counselling will help you at this very difficult time.

 

[Spamar]

So sorry for you. I think a lot of us have been through feelings like that. Hope the counselling helps.

 

[KatieRich]

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Sounds like on top of grieving you have a lot to do.
Maybe set yourself a small list to get through daily , hope the counselling helps you get through this difficult time xx