Hi I am a granddaughter of my 93 Y/O Nan who has 9 children (7 survived). Since covid she has had sever memory issues and confusion. The whole two years my
Aunty has told me she has a urine infection etc and she is being treated with antibiotics. It was so overwhelming to read an NHS letter stating my Nan has been diagnosed with advanced dementia. She thinks she’s been left at the coast in a caravan and my family still deny she has dementia. This evening my cousin has written in a group chat that Nan was confused again talking about house sitting and she didn’t know where she was. Well I said Nan has dementia so please educate yourself on it as you can’t correct her as this upsets her etc. my
Cousin told me straight away this was a wrong diagnosis!! I’m really upset that they ignore her illness because it is awful and hard to deal with. Her dog died two days ago of 12 years and she had forgotten what she was crying about. It is so hard right now to not have support for my Nan, I would want better for her but feel totally powerless. I’ve just had a baby and return to work soon. I’m doing what I can on my maternity leave but I don’t know how to cope with my family anymore. Does anyone have any advice on how to tackle these attitudes? Or advice for me on how to best help my Nan? She currently has carers 3 times a day. They are just standard ones. But they are good even though not specially for dementia patients. I just feel so helpless. Thanks
Aunty has told me she has a urine infection etc and she is being treated with antibiotics. It was so overwhelming to read an NHS letter stating my Nan has been diagnosed with advanced dementia. She thinks she’s been left at the coast in a caravan and my family still deny she has dementia. This evening my cousin has written in a group chat that Nan was confused again talking about house sitting and she didn’t know where she was. Well I said Nan has dementia so please educate yourself on it as you can’t correct her as this upsets her etc. my
Cousin told me straight away this was a wrong diagnosis!! I’m really upset that they ignore her illness because it is awful and hard to deal with. Her dog died two days ago of 12 years and she had forgotten what she was crying about. It is so hard right now to not have support for my Nan, I would want better for her but feel totally powerless. I’ve just had a baby and return to work soon. I’m doing what I can on my maternity leave but I don’t know how to cope with my family anymore. Does anyone have any advice on how to tackle these attitudes? Or advice for me on how to best help my Nan? She currently has carers 3 times a day. They are just standard ones. But they are good even though not specially for dementia patients. I just feel so helpless. Thanks