Im helping to take care of my Dad in his later stages of dementia. Im also watching my Mom, his primary caregiver be emotionally and verbally abusive to him. I totally get how hard it is on her, but its like she doesnt see how ill he is. She treats him the same as if he was still her husband, but he's not. To top it off, theyve now taken his only joy away from him. He loves playing his penny whistle but because he plays the same song over and over, they hide it from him and wont let him play it at home or his activity care centre.
Its hard enough watching my Dad deteriorate, but being abused and having his joy taken from him on top is so hard to watch.
I want to do more to help him but dont know what to do without upsetting things.
Its hard enough watching my Dad deteriorate, but being abused and having his joy taken from him on top is so hard to watch.
I want to do more to help him but dont know what to do without upsetting things.
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