Hi, my dad has been put into a care home these last 8 months, he doesn’t want to be in there and has objected to his placement for months, he had LPA in place who put him in there (long story but it came about following a family dispute ) the LPA has since revoked And dad is now under social services. DOLs have been involved and an RPR appointed that has confirmed his objection so a best interest meeting will take place soon.
My dad has deteriorated so much since his placement he really is unhappy being away from mum (over 64 years married) we have also found that when we visit he tends to keep his eyes closed more and goes off into world of his own. He has constantly suffered from chest infections and refuses to eat most of the food they present to him.
Has anyone experienced someone successfully being allowed home following a carehome placement, when he was at home all his needs were met by community carers- nothing has changed from that perspective. Yet social services are stating that we have to pay a top up for night carers as he roles out of bed? Which is something that he didn’t do at home
My dad has deteriorated so much since his placement he really is unhappy being away from mum (over 64 years married) we have also found that when we visit he tends to keep his eyes closed more and goes off into world of his own. He has constantly suffered from chest infections and refuses to eat most of the food they present to him.
Has anyone experienced someone successfully being allowed home following a carehome placement, when he was at home all his needs were met by community carers- nothing has changed from that perspective. Yet social services are stating that we have to pay a top up for night carers as he roles out of bed? Which is something that he didn’t do at home