hello everyone
This is my first post here. My mum has vascular and Alzheimer’s. Mum is 83 and lives at home with dad who is 85. Dad is hee primary carer but myself and my sister try to help as much as we can. We have taken over the washing/ironing and housework and we have mum every Friday for the day so my dad can go to the pub and meet his friends. Mum seems to be getting worse, she no longer really knows who me and my sister are, she talks about us when we are with her,
Asking when is she going to see her girls. She also threats about my dad, asking where he is and when she’s going to see him. Just lately she is being really bad in the evenings and over night, my dad usually calls one of us and we try to calm her down. She keeps asking us to go and get her and take her home, sometimes she doesn’t know who my dad is. She is now keeping my dad awake a lot in the night, i reallly don’t know how to help him, I worry myself sick about his welfare…can anyone give us any tips? If my dad gets his sleep, he can cope but atm she is being a nightmare. Can sleeping tablets be issued for her?
Thanks for reading, dementia is the cruelest disease out there. It’s so so hard.
Michelle
This is my first post here. My mum has vascular and Alzheimer’s. Mum is 83 and lives at home with dad who is 85. Dad is hee primary carer but myself and my sister try to help as much as we can. We have taken over the washing/ironing and housework and we have mum every Friday for the day so my dad can go to the pub and meet his friends. Mum seems to be getting worse, she no longer really knows who me and my sister are, she talks about us when we are with her,
Asking when is she going to see her girls. She also threats about my dad, asking where he is and when she’s going to see him. Just lately she is being really bad in the evenings and over night, my dad usually calls one of us and we try to calm her down. She keeps asking us to go and get her and take her home, sometimes she doesn’t know who my dad is. She is now keeping my dad awake a lot in the night, i reallly don’t know how to help him, I worry myself sick about his welfare…can anyone give us any tips? If my dad gets his sleep, he can cope but atm she is being a nightmare. Can sleeping tablets be issued for her?
Thanks for reading, dementia is the cruelest disease out there. It’s so so hard.
Michelle