Hi Everyone, im a new member after reading some of your worries and concearns it makes me realise we are not on our own. My mum has dementia my Dad who is 85 has been trying to take care of her but its now affecting his health, i live 2hrs away but have been travelling over every weekend to help. I have now decided over the next couple weeks i am finishing work to come help full time its quite scary leaving work and my husband( not permanent) to help. Thank you for listening. Julie.