Hello, I’m new here!
My Dad passed away last week, after a very short illness. He was Mums carer sat their home, and she’d never had anyone else in to look after her. Dementia was pretty much her worst nightmare, she always hated being seen to make mistakes or get things wrong, and tried to hide what was happening even when she could barely communicate anymore. Dad was due to go into hospital for a procedure the day after he died, and she was to go to a home for the weekend, however, she started hitting/pinching/screaming when people tried to move her. The emergency care changed to 24/7 home care, but she’s still very angry and they have said it’s not really safe as a long term option for her which we all agree with.
Social services said yesterday that they’re looking at getting a court order to enable them to move her. I can’t find any info on this scenario, only on sectioning. Has anyone experienced it? My Dad was only 68 and had been in good health until 5 weeks ago, and so we have all been thrown in the deep end here.
Just to make things easier… I don’t live nearby either.
My Dad passed away last week, after a very short illness. He was Mums carer sat their home, and she’d never had anyone else in to look after her. Dementia was pretty much her worst nightmare, she always hated being seen to make mistakes or get things wrong, and tried to hide what was happening even when she could barely communicate anymore. Dad was due to go into hospital for a procedure the day after he died, and she was to go to a home for the weekend, however, she started hitting/pinching/screaming when people tried to move her. The emergency care changed to 24/7 home care, but she’s still very angry and they have said it’s not really safe as a long term option for her which we all agree with.
Social services said yesterday that they’re looking at getting a court order to enable them to move her. I can’t find any info on this scenario, only on sectioning. Has anyone experienced it? My Dad was only 68 and had been in good health until 5 weeks ago, and so we have all been thrown in the deep end here.
Just to make things easier… I don’t live nearby either.