mum last christmas

jelba

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Aug 1, 2012
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Huddersfield
Feeling sad knowing this will be my mum last. A lot has changed since last year mum could talk now its just yelling mum could walk last year now she is in bed or in a big chair trying to get family members to visit her going to be a tough xmas for the family and her friends
 

canary

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Feb 25, 2014
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It is hard when you see a lot of changes, but how do you know that it will be your mums last? Twice this year I have been told by the doctors that mum would probably not survive and I did not think that she would last until Christmas - but she has.
 

Shedrech

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Dec 15, 2012
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hi jelba
I wonder about my dad too
but like canary I appreciate that nothing is certain - I'm determined to have a lovely Christmas Day with dad just in case, going for lunch at his care home and taking one of his sisters too - but will also take each day as it comes, expecting little, hoping for the best (whatever that may turn out to be)
best wishes to you and your mum