Mum has problems with leaving phone off hook

Lucille

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I had this problem with my mum but it was with cordless phones as no matter how many times I reminded her to press the red button at the end of the call she never did. So the call was never 'ended' as such and was engaged until she (remembered)?! to put it on the rest, which was rarely, and then she'd forget where she'd put the phone. I took it off her in the end. Now she has a problem with the tangled wire syndrome you mentioned.

I work with someone who also gets the phone so tangled up that her head is often resting on the desk when she's talking to someone:D so she ordered a little plastic clip which prevents the wire getting really twisted. I am going to try and order one for my mum, I will let you know what it's called. It might avoid the wire piling up and preventing the phone going on to the rest. 1471 syndrome is another issue, but I've sort of given up on that (pasting notes to walls didn't work) :)

I'll post back tomorrow and let you know the name of the gadget!
 

simpknt

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Tangled telephone cord

I recognise all these telephone problems because my partner does them all! I'm working on an idea that might help. A mobile 'phone, next to the landline 'phone, with a customised ringtone. If she leaves the 'phone off the hook then I can ring the mobile and she will hear my message: 'Janet, your 'phone is off the hook. Ring David' repeatedly. She can't use a mobile and I'll tape over the keys to stop her pressing them. The mobile will never be used except as an audible warning by simply 'ringing'.
 

jeany123

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Hi simpknt and welcome to TP this sounds a good idea but you have posted on a very old thread 2007 in fact :)

Best wishes Jeany x
 

CraigC

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Hi simpkn and welcome to TP.
jeany is right this is very old thread but I often find lots of useful information in old threads so can imagine how you came across it :)

There are few newer threads which you may find useful.

A mobile phone that only receives calls
http://forum.alzheimers.org.uk/showthread.php?51324-A-mobile-phone-that-only-receives-calls

Personal Alarms Good or bad.
http://forum.alzheimers.org.uk/showthread.php?52643-Personal-alarms-good-idea-or-bad&highlight

Helpful technology - phone
http://forum.alzheimers.org.uk/showthread.php?17159-Helpful-technology-phon

There was also an article in the Living with Dementia Magazine about Network controlled calling: Living with dementia magazine July 2011 you can download it here.
http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/site/scripts/download_info.php?fileID=1143

Kind Regards
Craig
 

simpknt

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Tangled telephone cord

Thanks Jeany and Craig for your suggestions. The landline 'phone Janet is currently using has 20 speed dial buttons with the names of the people next to the buttons. All she needs to do is press the button next to the person she wants to 'phone. She just about copes with this 'phone. most of the time. She is unable to cope with dialing numbers at all. Key sequences are not an option for her. My solution of a mobile with a customised ringtone will tick the boxes for Janet's situation. She doesn't have to press any buttons or remember to do anything except 'phone me as she normally does. My one concern is that the ringtone will not be loud enough to attract her attention. Luckily, she has a small open plan flat, but if I have to get another mobile for her living room then I will do so. She refuses to have a mobile no matter how simple it is. Umpteen specialised dementia mobiles are gathering dust! Once again, thanks to you both.
Regards, David
 

CraigC

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Hi David and a big welcome to Talking Point.

One site I forgot to mention is atDementia. It lists loads of products that are helpful for people with dementia, great site and easy to search. Sometimes there is a solutions just waiting, may just take a bit of finding.

http://www.atdementia.org.uk/

Hope this helps
Craig