Hi everyone, I haven't posted in a while as things have been fairly calm. Mum's care home asked us to move her last month saying she deteriorated beyond the level of care they can provide. She has been in her new nursing home for a month and seemed okay tho rather anxious (rapid breathing pacing grinding teeth) but then today they called to say she'd had a seizure. Although she was awake when I went to see her she was completely blank, not making eye contact or changing expression. It was quite upsetting. The GP now thinks based on her medical history it may have been caused by cancer returning after eight years. She is too frail for tests and treatment and I'm sure of that but I feel so helpless. Not sure if she will go back to how she was and I feel so sorry that I couldn't have done more for her. Has anyone else been in position of loved one potentially having a disease like cancer? Any advice on what to do?? I thought it seemed most likely to be a stroke so am a bit taken aback by the GP s comment. I just want to do what's best for her so she doesn't suffer. My poor mum.