My Mother has had Alzheimer's for about 5 years now,she is at the stage where she does not make any sense when talking and unfortunately she is getting worse (obviously). The reason I am here is to ask for your help with a problem I have, we have carers that go in 3 times a day also my brother and I go in every day, so she is rarely on her own, when she is on her own she just sits in the chair and looks at the television, she will not go out as she is scared in case she falls and hurts herself, at times she will stare out of the window waiting for someone to come to see her or take her out.
When I mention to her if she would like to be in a place where she has her own room and other people would not be far away, I get a firm No!However we have decided to put Mum in a home and we are not sure how to tell her about it, would it be better to tell her she is moving or just take her there and hopes she settles in.
It is breaking my heart as I feel that I am abandoning her by putting her in a home.
Hopefully looking for help,
San
When I mention to her if she would like to be in a place where she has her own room and other people would not be far away, I get a firm No!However we have decided to put Mum in a home and we are not sure how to tell her about it, would it be better to tell her she is moving or just take her there and hopes she settles in.
It is breaking my heart as I feel that I am abandoning her by putting her in a home.
Hopefully looking for help,
San