I struggle with persistent demands from my mother who I care for, that we 'go home' after a recent (two weeks ago) move from her house to a new flat with no stairs that I have purchased. We've lived together for five years but its obviously very difficult for a 99 year women with Alzheimer's (not very severe). However her demands are made quite vehemently and at about the same time in the morning each day. Although it dies down I know that it will start up again later in the day or the next day and it sparks quite considerable anxiety in me. I am not sure of the best way of responding. I started with deferal; 'lets see, maybe in a few days which worked for a while (I could try it again) then I tried rational discussion of the pro's and con's which didn't. Any tips? I'm told it will pass and that she will settle but I'm not sure.